Remember the whole
Ted Haggard scandal?
Most of you probably don't know that Pastor Ted was my pastor while I was in college. Because of the school and program I was enrolled in at the church, we were required to attend staff meetings every week at
New Life church. A lot of people hated these meetings, but I personally loved them. It was a time to worship with all of the staff, to hear a lot of "behind the scenes" things, and to hear Pastor Ted speak to his staff members. To hear what was on his heart and a lot of times just to hear/see him be silly and relaxed. I really respected Pastor Ted.
Then the scandal happened. I remember the exact time I heard about it. I was driving from Palm Springs, CA to Olathe, KS (when we were moving there) and my best friend Angie was in the front seat at the time. We happened to stumble across some guy talking about it on the radio and of course it caught my attention. I remember sticking up for him from the beginning, saying they were false allegations and there was
no way he had done the things that were being said about him. They even played this audio clip of him talking and I said "nope, that's not him." In the back of my mind I thought it sounded like him, but there was no way I could believe that this leader that I
really respected could have done this.
Then, come to find out, most of those things were true. I was completely heart-broken. At first I felt betrayed, like he had been living this false life the entire time he was leading New Life. Then over time I started getting angry because of all of the media attention. I remember sitting in a church in KS the following Sunday and the Pastor mentioned the situation and prayed that we could all be stronger than temptation, and I was offended that this Pastor had made Ted seem so high and mighty above sin, like he should have been a better Christian and this wouldn't have happened. As time went on, it seemed like that settled as most people's mind-set of him. That if he would have just been stronger, a better leader, or a better Christian, that this wouldn't have happened. UGH... to this day I could still go on and on about the situation. And a lot of people don't understand why I defend him.
Here's why I defend him. Ted is human. He is just as prone to sin as I am, as you are. Let's get one thing straight: I am not condoning his behavior, what he did, or saying it's okay by any means. What he did was definitely wrong. But in God's eyes, sin is sin... him doing what he did would be the same as you or I telling a 'little white lie'. Yes, he is a Pastor and it says clearly in the bible that he will be judged at a higher standard or level. But
who are we to judge him and label him like he should have been perfect? I am sure he battled with many things just like you and I do. One of the biggest differences between us is that he had a bigger support system than we could ever imagine ... I can only guess the thousands of people that would have been there for him and helped him through those tough thoughts and things he was struggling with. I'll say it once, I'll say it a thousand times ... get plugged into a community group or small group. Everyone
NEEDS a group of people who you can tell anything to and will pray for you and carry you through the tough times.
This has turned into more of a book than I had planned, but the point of this post ...
Pastor Ted started a new church in Colorado Springs out of his barn. I admire him, and I think it is amazing that he is strong enough to go through tragedy and come out the other end of it and go back into ministry. I would love to attend his new church sometime ... he was always a fabulous and energetic speaker.
I believe in him. Many prayers are with you, Pastor Ted and your wife Gayle, in your new adventure.
