Here's a few things people have said to me, most of them being complete strangers, after finding out that I'm pregnant.
- My friend from church has a mentally retarded baby. She was breastfeeding and her appendix exploded and didn't know it - she assumed it was just pain from giving labor a few days earlier. She poisoned her baby while she continued to breastfeed for two more days.
- Did you hear about the lady this past weekend that was delivering her baby and something happened during labor where either the baby or the mom was going to die. The dad had to actually choose which one to keep.
- How far along are you? ::insert my response here:: Oh, I miscarried 1 week later than you are right now. Not to freak you out or anything....
- I'm a nurse at ___ hospital here in town and helped deliver a still-born baby yesterday. It was terrible.
- You're pregnant? Wow, good luck with that.
- You're gonna get soooooooo huge!!!
Do me a favor and try to be sensitive to pregnant people - I really don't want to hear you're horror stories about how you were in labor for 38 hours or how bad it's going to hurt while recovering from labor or how I can "look forward" to the cracking and bleeding brought on from breastfeeding. Thanks peeps.
I just want someone to tell me that it's not going to hurt. I'd love you forever if you did.




